Saturday, June 11, 2011

Tiny Wisdom: On Being Seen


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by Lori Deschene

“Enthusiasm
is the greatest
asset in the world.
It beats money,
power, and influence.”


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-Henry Chester
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Influence has become a huge buzz word, particularly now that social media
has taken the world by storm. There are sites to measure it. Blog posts that dissect it.
Books that analyze the psychology of it. Collectively, we’re obsessed with the ability
 to persuade other people.

It’s not just about driving consumer behavior, although clearly that’s a big part of it
–everyone needs to earn a living. It’s also not all about the ego–having the most followers,
the most retweets, or the most influential friends. I suspect it’s also about the desire to be seen.

With so many people sharing their thoughts, feelings, and gifts, it’s easy to feel like you’re
not being heard. Like you’re not making a difference. But sometimes in our desires to be seen
by others, we stop looking into ourselves.

There’s no denying that a spotlight can magnify the impact that someone can make. But if you
think back to the last time someone affected you in a profound way, odds are it had nothing
to do with authority or influence.

What really makes a difference is heartfelt, inspired action, backed by authentic, positive intention.

It’s not power of persuasion that moves us; it’s the power of passion.

That’s something we can all access, and it does make a difference–even if it doesn’t reach masses
of people. More importantly, passion makes a difference for us. No amount of approval or
validation can provide the same joy that comes from looking into and following your heart.

Today if you feel like you’re not being seen, ask yourself: What am I passionate about, and how
can I use that passion today to be the person I want to be?

Buddha

Photo by florianpusch
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